Choosing a sex toy

Non-existent B. Excited, but a little apprehensive too B. Eager to experiment, with only with something I feel comfortable with C. Small and discreet B. The classic look C.

The sexual wellness space is dominated by women who recognize that the orgasm gap is bullshit, which is swell. For some of us, making sure there's a checkmark next to "waterproof" is more than enough. In general, though, you should double-check that your next pleasure friend isn't going to cause your vagina any problems. If "body safe" has your question marks floating above your head, Sinclair says that silicone and stainless steel are good places to start! Here's a real-life lesson to apply to the world of adult toys: everyone is different. Maybe you're perpetually on the quest for a blended orgasm and need a toy that can target a million different erogenous zones. Maybe you are just really into humping pillows.

We turned to Dr. Will you be using it in the bed only? Do you want the option to be able to use it in the shower or tub?

Buying your first toy can be an exciting, but also frustrating experience. I know this first-hand because I was in the same position not too long ago. Be sure to follow the rule of thumb that body-safe materials include non-porous silicone, glass, and wood. While there are plenty of real body-safe toys on the market, there are just as many phonies out there.